Thursday, June 26, 2008

Cheating and Lying and Getting Away with it

Here's a situation I've found myself in.

I'm absent for 2 days for a conference in mid-May.  The sub gives my test to my junior biology students.  Students A and B tell me when I get back that Students C and D cheated, by signalling across the room.  I approach Student C (D's absent) and ask her what happened.  I tell her that someone has accused her of cheating and she breaks down crying and says "it was only on one question..."  I tell her to go report herself to the principal and then later she tells me, "oh, I just wanted to clarify my story now that I'm not upset.  I didn't cheat and I'm VERY upset that someone accused me."  She told the principal her second story.  I talk to the principal and he says there is not much we can do, as it is a she says/he says case (even if she kind of confessed to me).  Student D denies any cheating went on.

So, either they cheated and student C confessed then lied, or they didn't cheat and Student C lied when she confessed to something she didn't do...  ??  

The pickle I'm in: I previously told student C I would write her a college recommendation next fall.  Now what do I do?  I decided to wait and see if she brought it up again.

Now in June, she emailed me, asking for confirmation that I'm writing a recommendation.  I emailed her back, asking to talk to her and her parents about it.  I'm hoping to tell her parents the story and I hope that she wakes up and learns a lesson from this.

I just got a panicked email from her asking why I need to talk to her parents. 

What would you do?  Do you think I'm doing the right thing?  Should I tell her parents?

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

That is a tough one. I would say if you haven't had any other incidents with this student in the past or since then, I would still write her a recommendation. Perhaps I wouldn't write her as glowing a recommendation as I would originally have. It is difficult to know if she really cheated or not.